Can you attract someone by thinking about them

What you think, you create. Alot of people do apply the LOA, but its like they are forcing it. You should feel happy when imagining it,on a scientific level u thinking about something and expereincing it in real life gives same brain wave pattern…. So you should be feeling as if it were with you… I will be a little straight forward and say you have a negative energy flowing when ur applying LOA….

How i often apply it,is while listening to a really pumpy song and i imagine it as if i really have the stuff… I can feel my self smile when i do so,and the feeling is priceless. I was seeing this really great guy for a couple of months.

Things were fantastic between us, but he just got out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago and apparently it was a messy end- she basically picked her career over him and moved to a different state.

I totally understand this, and really did sense it… is it possible that I manifested this? I kept thinking that. Is it possible that I made this happen myself with my negative thoughts about it?

And if so, can I use the LOA to turn it around, help him get over her faster and come back to me? Thank you in advance for your help. Your thoughts have the power to create, so it is possible that you created this situation, but you can also turn it around. Let go of any worries or fears you have in regards to his ex. Focus on being at one with being the relationship.

Keep your vibration high by doing things you enjoy. The higher you can keep your vibration, the faster you should see results using the Law of Attraction for love to attract your specific person. It really brought my vibration up so high when I first read it… and it continues to. I have faith. Thank you again. Hi, I have been loving this girl, like crazy and madly since the past 18 months.

However, she doesnt feel anything for me yet. I even expressed my feelings for her. She denied and asked to be friends. But since i was committed to her, i continued to behave the same. However, she took my commitment for desperation. Worst part is, i realised lately that she is seeing my best friend, who knew everything about my feelings for this girl. She doesnt even realise that this guy is playing around with her.

Now, i feel betrayed and as though my friend has taken advantage of the situation. Now, she hardly talks to me. Things are getting worse day by day. And she is supposed to be leaving for some other country for higher education soon, after which i wont be able to meet her often. Please please please tell me how do i win her. You can use this technique to change things with any person, even your best friend.

Things are getting better day by day. OMG Elizabeth, you just hit me bang on. I didnt even know i was thinking this negative all over. Thank you so much.

But can you please help me with a list of to-do things or steps i must do to change my vibrations and feelings in my situation. As of now, i think of our past days when me and this girl were good friends and we used to laugh, talk, do everything. I have read many articles and books but i am not able to customize it in my situation. Thanks in advance. Trust me you are doing a great job. Hi, I have been seeing a guy for 5 years. I am in love with him but we dont talk about feelings.

He cheated on me a year 1 of our relationship for 6 months. He has his own place as I have kids from another relatioship. I feel anxious when im not with him as I feel he is going to cheat. I am using loa to be positive and have gratitude with the good things we do. He does not want to commit as he is thinking babout his life and moving forward and im not part of his plans.

I feel the fear and cant let go as when we r together its great, How else can i make this work. Hi Shona, If you want to successfully use the Law of Attraction for love for a specific person, you need to overcome your fear.

Your thoughts and emotions create, so if you continue to be afraid, you will create the things that you fear — his cheating, his not wanting to commit, etc. Other times, it might be necessary to use tapping or EFT to get rid of the fear. Why can I not purchase a copy of your ebook for kindle? Is this because I am in uk? I love the articles by the way.

Thank you. You can purchase a copy in the UK here: Manifesting Love. Thamk you for your email. I have managed to purchase it and put it inyo practice. Can I ask how effective it is.

The Law of Attraction works every time. The effectiveness depends on you and the energy flow you put into manifesting your specific person. The more positively you flow energy in relation to your desire, and the more you sustain that energy, the faster you will see the results you want. Let your emotions help guide you along the way. I just wanted to share something about heart energy. I decided to give this a go I look at the picture of my desire and send him love and happiness, in addition I imagine a pink spiral all around him and me.

I have done this for two days and I feel liberated I feel like everything I was worrying about has disappeared I feel a different person seriously. It is like I have let it go whilst still feeling the energy inyhands and feet.

Am not sure if this is right or not if Elizabeth could clarify, but I feel great. Feeling liberated and as if worry has disappeared is wonderful! It naturally raises your vibration and releases resistance. How can i have it? I am from india. Elizabeth, I have bought Your books and been an avid fan of your blog!

I have always had great success manifesting my desires until recently. My relationship of 4 years has ended- on his part— I have followed Your steps, used EFT, meditation, visualization, and have been working on my vibration. Any tips or suggestions? Guidance would be appreciated. Thank you very much for the wonderful LOA resources, books, Advice, and presence!

Thank so much chitownblu! Tapping works well for this. Also, remember to focus on what you want. It could also be a factor in things not attracting your specific person as your vibration is closer to alignment with not being with him, than being with him.

Or should I focus in what I want, relax, and accept what is? Normally I focus in meditation on my intentions, relax, and allow my manifestations to occur—but, normally I am also not as Concerned about what I want to manifest. Should I be doing it differently? When you give attention to what is, you give it power to create more of what is. You should relax and allow your manifestation to occur, as you have always done. Elizabeth- I feel as if im doing this all wrong—primarily because I dont see it manifesting.

Ive poured over your book and site and I am at a loss as to my missteps…. Stop looking at your reality like it is and start seeing it how you want to be. Simply put, you are not at one with your desire.

You have to change your thoughts. You need to be able to relax and let go. You need to focus on raising your vibrational energy and doing things that make you feel joyful.

This article on resistance might help you get clearer so you can attract a specific person. I know the LOA says when you want to manifest a specific person you have to be willing to lose them — you have to let go and be ok with not being with them in order to manifest the relationship you want. It also says that you should visualize the relationship you want with this person as if you already have it. How can one do both?

How can I imagine being in a relationship with this person but let them go and be ok with not the being with them at the same time? I cover it and more in Manifesting Love.

I would like to say thank you to you. Your article gave me hope. However, here is my story. I am in love with this guy that I know since He cares for me but he always says I will be happier with someone else. I know its him that I always wanted. He is the amazing guy that I really wish to spend my time with.

I did visual n all but its been almost a year and there isnt any results yet. I just want him to realise and notice whats he is missing. Want him to give me a chance of being with him. I truely love him since the first I met him. Please revert back to me. Your assistance are much appreciated.

What are your thoughts on this situation and how to change it Elizabeth? I have been intending to manifest a specifuc relationship with my ex. I visulized him coming and our relationship reignitung——what happened? What did I do wrong?

For example, you may have had some fears or doubts about what would happen once he got there. When you bought the ticket, you decided how things were going to happen.

Rather than letting the Universe determine how he would come to you, you decided how he would come. Elizabeth- Thank you! So what do you suggest I do instead? I never thought of it as trying to control it-I thought it was inspired action because it was so out of my norm. Right now I am heartbroken and my faith is very shaken…. I believed I was sending the pos vibes and intentions out there-i really felt as if….

You are greater than what is going on around you. Your relationship with yourself is your most important relationship. You can still change what happens in the future. Focus on getting to a place where you feel better. The happier and more joyful you feel, the more positive results you will see.

You need to let go, release all resistance, and allow it to happen. Trust that the relationship already exists and allow yourself to receive it. Focus on feeling good. Elizabeth- I am in a situation where the man I just got back into my life applying the LOA is saying he just wants to be friends. When we first got back cool after a nasty seperation, he was reaching out to me constantly. Then I told him I wanted to spend more time with him and it seems after I said that, things went sour and he jumped from wanting to be around me to saying nothing is there anymore and he just wants to be friends.

No warning or anything. This is the man I want to be around. I am very happy with him and cannot be in the same place I was with him when we were on bad terms, I refuse to go back to that space! PLease help me! I have a strong desire to be with and around this man. Hi Y — I explain how to attract the relationship you want in Manifesting Love. All the Best — Elizabeth. Hi Elizabeth — thank you for the wonderful insight into attracting an ex.

I got your book and have started doing everything you suggest. I could feel my vibrations rising and went to sleep with a wonderful open heart feeling. When I woke up the doubts of his intentions started filtering into my brain. I switch between what will be will be and positive thought.

We lived together f or 7 years and he has moved out. I have left his cupboards ready for him to come back but am worried that I am not getting the detachment thing right. Will it come in time if I just carry on practising everything you have suggested?

Thank you for your time and care. Detachment will come with time. Also, as I discuss in the book, focus on doing things that make you happy. I used your method to attract someone back after he had gone and it worked.

I want to attract him back using LOA again. I am training myself to visualise better but I find sometimes the feeling of love is strong but sometimes not at all probably because the long distanced has dragged us down and it is the second time manifesting the same person.

Will making myself happy work in order to manifest in this situation? You should follow the same steps you followed the first time. Eventually I started seeing other people years down the line, mind you our relationship was up and down. I used to beg him to get our relationship back on track for about three years so finally I gave up because of continuous cheating. Finally the guy that I was with for ten years we started seeing each other again during my pregnancy, but the catch is he wants me to give up baby for adoption.

How do me and the children attract him for a positive family oriented relationship? Reality is an illustration of the choices one makes. These choices are a mixture of thoughts, beliefs, and feelings. Hi, I am from India. I wanted to know whether your book is available in physical copy. I donot have a kindle. So if i buy it from amazon, how will i be able to access it.

I donot to know much abut kindles. Pls help. Hi Riddhi — My books are only available in India as kindle books. Amazon has free software you can download that allows you to read it on your computer and other devices.

Thank you for responding, but how do I find out where and when I went wrong? The person that I have been on and off with for ten years, how do I get that back on track with him without the resentment and just have a good family life.

Do I apply the LOA or do I let go and focus on my blessings which are my children and many other things? Hi Onique — You need to look over your thoughts, beliefs, emotions from the past to see why you created it in the past. You need to look at your current thoughts, beliefs and emotions to see why you are creating it now. Using the Law of Attraction includes letting go and focusing on your blessings.

In order to succeed with the Law of Attraction, you have to work on your thoughts, beliefs and emotions AND let go and appreciate everything in your life. I want to use your book to know how to shift my focus because I keep focusing on the negative aspects.

I hope to hear from u soon. Hi Rekha — My books are only available in Singapore as kindle books. Hi Riddhi — Belief and faith are necessary in order to assume the mindset of having it. Lack of belief often stems from resistance. Overcome the resistance and belief increases. Recently we started talking with each other Just a hello. My fiance and I had a very close knit relationship. Unfortunately, life had us spend the last 8 months away from each other, because of work.

It took its toll on the relationship which had already started to suffer because of financial reasons. From one day to the next, he completely closed the door on me. We went from constantly talking and missing each other, to nothing at all. Logistics had to be sorted out etc…. But he has become very cold all of a sudden, and I heard that it was the only way for him to get over it. He says that moving forward and far away helps him deal with getting over us… In any case, our relationship was beautiful on the whole, but we simply had a break down in communication when it came to dealing with the pain of separation and money issues.

I know he is my soulmate as I am his. That much I know. However, he is moving so far away. I am going to be in the US and him in Tahiti. Do we even stand a chance? He could meet someone else, or just forget about me….

I am lost. I want him because we were something awesome. We just allowed fear to rule our lives…. Need some TLC and encouragement : … Thanks. You matter. Work on your thoughts, feelings, and vibration. You have the ability to change your life and the Universe fully supports you. Can you please help me how should i use this law in this case. By applying this loa, can you manifest a couple of people at once? You can pick the best person for you.

You can use the techniques in my book on the law of attraction for love to help you do this by focusing on the type of person you want, as opposed to the specific person. Loved your kindle book! Moving on is never as easy as one thinks. So that alone, prevents one from moving on peacefully. Frankly, moving on with hope, regardless of the result, is so much healthier than without it.

So for that alone thanks! I know he is hurt and dealing with it in his won male way I guess…We are thousands of miles away from each other and I want to manfiest spending christmas together. Is is advisable to manifest a certain date? Does that give it more power, or takes away from manifestation? It just seems that manifesting an ex back is almost more difficult than manifesting a specific person you know but have never had a relationship with…Probably because of all the baggage and history.

So anyway I just wanted to know if a specific date is ok? Thank you so much :. You are a good person Elizabeth. Helping others reach their goals and through difficult times is an amazing and honorable way to leave a mark in this world. I never imagined anyone would be having a book club or post clubs. You can use a specific date if you want. I usually caution people not to use specific dates because it causes a problem for most people. They become fixated on the date and, as the date approaches, they begin to start blocking themselves from receiving what they want.

Also, a specific date can also delay a manifestation at times. People can focus on a date so intensely that they delay an invent from manifesting until the date. For example, picking Christmas could delay something from manifesting until Christmas, whereas if no date had been picked it may have manifested months earlier at Halloween. So you can use Christmas, but be aware of any fears or other forms of resistance that comes up if you do.

She wanted to know if it was compatible eventhough it is the same philosophy, she was afraid that perhaps practising two different methods might delay her manifestations in any way…I do not know if this is something you can help her with! Loving our little book club which is growing too!!!! My ex and I broke up only because his parents believe that he does not need a relationship with a girl in this time in life. He just started college.

I am so in love with him. We have been broken up since this summer, and I am trying my best to do everything the LOA teachers express you should do. I believe that I spend alot of focus on missing him, which of course brings more missing him. This week I have found a way to completely be happy, therefore I manifested a message from him. We are not allowed to communicate with each other so I never know when I will get to talk to him.

I asked him during that time if he would fight for us, fight for us to be together and by his actions and words, he pretty much wants us to wait, just like his parents want him to do.

I believe we can all be a happy family right now in this time! Basically my question to you is; Can going by the advice in this article help me with manifesting my one huge burning desire. Considering this involves three people now. The LOA states to visualize and feel your desire, like you already have what you want. Basically focusing on you is the major part of attracting a specific person, and of course being okay with not receiving what you want, letting go or detachment.

Hi Elizabeth.. AJ here again…I bought your book last night and read it in one setting! Good stuff! I will be reading it again today so I can start the work properly and really soak it all in. But we are both still on the dating site we meet on few months ago. I know I am doing no contact, but with him still being able to see me and I being able to see him…does that kill the mystery of him missing me and will it hinder me from fully letting go?

I am just trying to stay open and not block anyone that maybe better…even though I want the chance to see where things can go with him with the proper realignment. Thanks in advance! The Law of Attraction for love has your best interest at heart. Hi Elizabeth, I believe in the LOA as it has worked for me my entire life in many situations that seemed absolute hopeless.

But i have not used it for a specific person ever, but I am so excited to do that now. My question is, is there another format where I can get your book, as I do not have kindle? I will pay the same price of course. Thank you! Amazon has free apps that allow you to read it on your computer, ipad and other devices.

I was in a relationship with someone a few months back, but life circumstances got in the way a bit. These life circumstances have changed now and I would like him back in my life. Should I focus my energy on manifesting him specifically? And we have not talked in a while, so I assume I should NOT contact him and just focus on myself and on the manifestation? Please advise. I have not heard from him in a while. Should I contact him or just wait? Please refer to those answers. What if they are telling everyone they are moving on and happier without you and are going toward greener pastures and they are open to meeting someone new?

Any tips on how to switch off emotional pain and memories, and just concentrate on the good? My tips are: 1 Stop focusing on the negative. Focus on what you want to create. Change how you view your ex. Allow yourself to see him as being nicer towards you. Focus on what you like about him. If you believe manifesting him is very challenging, it will be for you. You need to overcome the negative feelings you have. Choose to be happy and do things that make you happy.

It will get easier. It gave me hope when I was devastated. My story is like this. I used to like someone. In fact I really do love him with all my heart. I did my part and let him know about my feelings to him.

He said that he dont wanna hurt me and he says I deserve someone better without even giving it a try. But my instinct always say that he do love me, he just dont want to show it. Every night, I would pray to god to give me signs if i should continue to believe in this love or not.

I did receive signals not once but many times. Its like each time I want to move on in life something unbelievable happens, like getting a text from him and so on. I really want to share my love and happiness with him. I have completely let go and I am staying dettached. But I just want to know what else could I do to make him realise my love for him is pure?

Please give me a piece of your mind. I really desire a relationship with him. I am looking forward for your reply. You really make good use of your time. All I can say is God bless you! You deserve everything! I really really like this girl who recently got married to someone else deservedly to a great guy. But she and I get along really well. She is amazing. Obviously I cant go down the path to attract her using LOA. I like her. At the same time, I know 3 other girls that really like me.

They are also amazing, all in different ways. But sadly I have no feelings for any of them. All 3 are so nice. Every guy likes them. It all makes sense. I think I do do that. Sometimes overly. Sometimes I have an ego too. Have to be honest and admit it. Manifest someone who strikes your fancy and makes you happy. Apply it. Change begins with you. Dear Elizabeth, I have not yet read your book which I have just purchased but I have a couple of questions regarding a broken relationship:.

He has made it clear that there is no way he would get back into a relationship with me. And of course, after being told this I wrote him an angry email giving him a piece of my mind.

While I love him more than life itself and visualize us being together again I must say that I find it very difficult to imagine us together, based on the way he seems to feel or not feel… about me.

How do I let go of thinking of the outcome when all I can do is think about him and that perhaps he will meet someone else soon, or already has etc…. Am I wrong for wanting the love of my life back and just be given a genuine chance to see if things could work again? Just something small? As he never contacts me first for anything anymore. Would that be alright to just manifest him little by little to build my confidence?

If you need more information on letting of of the outcome, these articles might help: Are You Having Trouble Letting Go? Hi, I want your suggestion , My best friend ignores me suddenly behave like an stranger like she dont know me, 1 month ago she talk to me regularly hang with me all day we go for date watching movies , spending time with me their are no reason to ignore me she knows from very first day that i love her as s friend i want her back i dobg know ehy she ignoring me …….

Mam i dont know , i do nothing wrong but she ignores me i lovd her as a friend as a love of my life , why she ignores me i want her back and want she also love me like i do………. Thank you for offering good advice and sharing your beliefs. I believe I manifested him into my life and we get along fabulously. Hope this makes sense. This has a lot to do with quantum physics and is far too complex to give a detailed answer here. Basically, you create your reality.

Everything in your reality now is based on what you have created in the past. Your future is based on what you are creating now. Your future can be anything that you choose it to be. There is a limitless number of possibilities for you to step into, just as there is a limitless versions of you and a limitless versions of everyone else in your life.

Everyone takes a role according to the reality you create. If you create a reality with him in it, he will be in it. Manifesting is about lining up with the reality you want. A future exists where you are with him and a future exists where you are not with him.

You simply have to come into alignment with the reality that you want. All the power lines in you. Thank you for your answer and this makes sense. I understand that if my reality is to have him in my life, then he will be. You will experience the reality you are most in vibrational reality with. You create your reality. Hi Elizabeth…I really appreciate you taking the time to answer all of our questions…no matter how big, small or repetitive…thank you for continuing to answer and being patient…we all are just trying to get it right…trying to find our happy place and manifest within it.

But I would like to know if it is possible to manifest him or someone even better for Thanksgiving? I would love to have a great guy to accompany me for the holiday festivities and more! And how do I manifest faster? Thanks again in advance! You can try for Thanksgiving, but be careful with using specific dates.

Many people get so focused on the date that they allow fears and doubt to creep up. They end up not manifesting it not working when if they had stayed the course, they may have been someone the very next day. Hi dear Elizabeth. I know it may sound weird but is it possible to attract so who is married now? Anjali — Elizabeth explains how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person in her book, Manifesting Love. I like a Girl in my office….

But i want to take our friendship to another level.. Hi Elizabeth, Ive just read the book — ive always visualised and practised gratitude and its worked well for me. However when it comes to love, not so much. I read the section on vibrational matches.

I know this means im blocking him but its the way i feel. Ive been in love with him for nearly 2 years, but alas he now has someone else. In the beginning of October things were bad, he forced me to move out thinking it would help things, which surprisingly it did. I thought this would only make things worse, I was constantly worried he would cheat on me, go behind my back, and betray me; like he has before. We were still together, just not living together.

A week later after we spent some time talking and working through things, I moved back in. But it is has worried me over the past few days. I try so hard to imagine us happy and trying to believe in everything he says to me is true and sincere.

I just have major trust issues. I care for him an immense amount and would do anything for him, I love him very much.

However, I do believe that I would be okay with out him.. I do not want this to happen, but you said you have to imagine yourself being able to let go of that person. He is for sure the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, and I never want to lose him. What I am confused about is, if I am using the Law of Attraction to attract him more into my life, what if he is using the Law of Attraction to attract a different person in his life, such as his ex, instead of me.

Which situation with manifest? Again, I think way too in depth about things and sometimes just make it worse for myself. Is it possible for me to use the Law of Attraction to make this actually be a proposal? Elizabeth, please help me understand everything that is happening and how I can think less and be stressed and manifest this relationship with him, keep him in my life forever, and attract a marriage.

Hello, I am hoping you can help me with this…. I feel so excited when the Universe shows me my signs of my desire. Is there anything I can do to keep myself from feeling anxious to receive when I see these signs? I was in a relationship with a guy for awhile but we split in Since then he has had a girlfriend and I think they still live together. I have dated since then but have been unsuccessful in finding that combustible chemistry that I had with him, with someone else.

We would always reconnect on and off throughout the entire time we were broken up until last year. We may not be meant to be together but I miss the initial friendship we had prior to us being in a relationship; we were so close and complimented each other well. I have been single ever since, but have gone on plenty dates as I am never lacking suitors.

I am no longer in love with him but I do still love him and miss his presence, chemistry, companionship and energy. I never pressure, I play it cool and may even come off passive.

I was his first girlfriend and he was my first boyfriend as well. What could be going on? I miss him a lot. Hello Elizabeth, I recently purchased your book and started applying the loa to my relationship.

Now he seems almost scared to get close to me as if she has threatened him, but I see him everyday and we still kiss goodnight sometimes. He told me hes not completely over her but he never wants to be with her again and that he doesnt want to be in a relationship with anyone for a very long time, but he also says how attracted he is to me and how much he cares for me.

Ive been thinking of ignoring him and maybe that will help him miss me but I not sure.. Focus on creating the relationship you want and allow it to happen.

Any fears, doubts or worries are signs of resistance. The following articles may help you clear them:. Hi Elizabeth, Am new here and I start knownig about the law of attraction 3 month ago.. I cant live happy if am not in a love relation coz that first relation makes me live in wonderland.. I knew a girl 4 month ago via facebook.. Hi Dear Elizabeth, I love this guy for more than 1 year.

I started to doubt if he really loves me or just want to sleep with me. He sometimes treated me well and appreciated my kindness to him. What should I do? Adrina — Elizabeth explains how to use the law of attraction to attract a specific person and create the relationship of your dreams in her book, Manifesting Love.

Your telepathic abilities will grow when you are able to clear your mind. Meditation is a great way to do this. The more you meditate, the easier it will be to recognize the thoughts of others and the more clear you are about the thoughts that you are sending. Meditation may work wonders in helping you to slow down the chatter in your mind. Try: A meditation program for beginners.

The way to do that is to think positive thoughts and imagine good things happening to that person. Doing so will shift the energy between you and the person. Learn how to read the messages of the Universe. Sign up for free Psychic Lessons here. What do you want to tell the person? Have that conversation in your head. Tell them silently what you want to tell them and then be still to see if you sense any telepathic communication coming back to you from the person.

Visualize yourself and this person having a productive conversation with both parties benefiting from the dialog. You might have more luck trying to send thoughts prior to going to sleep at night. Oranum lets you try out a psychic via chat for free. Try a free chat reading via Oranum here. If you want to attract someone through telepathy, turn on your positive thoughts about that person and the type of relationship you want to have. Repetition is important.

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